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If you happened to look out to Mt Susitna today, you'd have seen the most beautiful view I think I've ever seen.  The entire surrounding area was covered with dark thick clouds, with the exception of Mt Susitna & the Alaska Range.  It was amazing!  The sun was peaking through & just lighting the area up.

As Kevin & I were getting ready to leave, I was in a flurry to find the aviation map that had the latitude & longitude coordinates of where we were going, and I couldn't find it.  After searching 3 areas that I 'just knew' it would be, Kevin made mention of a photo box that has Brianna's name on it.  Finally as I got to the bottom of the box, there it was.  I stood up & hugged him tight.  Thanked him for thinking of this little box, as I just couldn't stand the fact of going & not getting near the same spot.

My parents & Kevin's parents met us at Era, where we would take off from.  We decided not to take Amanda as we didn't need the extra things to deal with, like her not taking to flying well, as she has never been in an airplane.

We were supposed to take off about 10am, but Winston, the pilot, was running late & got stuck in the McDonald's drive thru!  haha  I didn't happen to look at the clock when we did finally take off, but I do believe it was around 11:00ish.  The view was breathtaking.  I had forgotten how pretty this State is from the air.  Those that were on the ground watching us from Pt Woronzoff could see the helicopter until we landed on Mt Susitna...wow!!  I couldn't have asked for a better day.  Even though Anchorage was cloudy, the view of where we were going was spectacular, as if God was saying, it may be dark now, but light is just around the bend.

Once we were in the air, I made a point to look down at Pt Woronzoff.  I knew I wouldn't be able to see 'people', but I did see a few cars & flashes of light as they took pictures.

The ride over was full of both silence & laughter.  Winston used to work with Kevin, and if you've ever worked for a good employer, you know the 'like family' atmosphere.  I remember Winston turning around & looking at Kevin saying; "having you on board with me just isn't right!  A bit scary!"  We all couldn't help but laugh.  It was nice to have laughter at a time that is so sad.

As we were approaching the mountain, we saw 4 Grizzly bears; mom & 3 cubs!!!  It was the coolest thing!  They were running around & looking up at us not knowing where to go or what to think.  Winston took us up over the mountain so we could see the view on the other side, something we were unable to do the last time.  It was so great.  Then we circled around & started looking for anything that looked familiar.  We had the longitude & latitude coordinates from when we took Brianna, but it only gets you 'close', not exact.  Once we saw what appeared to be 'the rock' we found a safe place to land.  I'm not convinced we were in the exact spot, but I have to force myself to think that it's ok.  I know they have already found one another and are running around all over the place.

Once we got out of the helicopter, we soaked in the view, a view that was better this time then last as there weren't any clouds above or around us.  Although it was freezing (43 before wind chill), we made the best of it.  We looked down the mountain where we had seen the 4 bears & saw them looking up at us; we were about a mile away from them.

With Winston on 'bear watch', the six of us  began to walk down to 'the rock' & proceeded to take Jake out of the urn.  I was downwind this time, so Kevin asked if I wanted to release him.  After swallowing hard, I agreed.  At that time, my dad joined us & wrapped his arms around us both.  All I could do is sob.  I remember taking a moment to feel the wind on my cheeks & looking at the picture of his sweet face that I brought with us, while unwinding the twist-tie.  I then grabbed a hold of the identification tag that was at the bottom of the zip-lock bag & let him fly in the wind.

Then, my dad moved in beside me & began to release the ashes of our childhood dog, Misty, who they have had in an urn for the last 13 years.  So now, not only does Brianna have a brother with her, she has a puppy to play & run around with.  I wish I could put into words how I felt during the time I was there, but it's just so mixed.  I was happy, sad, exhausted, relieved, & now cold!

We took a few more pictures of the surrounding area & loaded back into the helicopter.  I wish we could have stayed longer & just reminisce, take in the moment & relax a little, but it was so cold & since we weren't dressed in hats, gloves, & other cold weather gear, I knew it was time for us to go.

As Winston maneuvered us off the mountain, he circled around the area so we could have one last look & then started moving away from the mountain.  With Jake's picture held tightly in my hand, I admired the view on the way back & cried.

I'm so grateful for that 'family like' atmosphere; if it wasn't for that, this event may not have been possible, or at least wouldn't have been free.  I know what it meant to Winston to be able to take us there because he knew what it meant for us.

We arrived back about 12:15pm & afterwards we didn't do anything.  We all arrived in 3 vehicles & we left going our own ways.  Once Kevin & I got home, his sister brought Amanda back to us & we visited for a little while.  Shortly thereafter, Kevin's brother arrived & joined our visit with his sister.  We talked about the trip over & other non-related things that made us laugh.  Once they left, we put Amanda down for her nap while Kevin & I laid in bed & watched the recording of our Sunday night shows.  It didn't take long for me to just fall asleep.  When Amanda was up from her nap, we went over to my parents house for dinner.  All & all it was a relaxing day, something I desperately needed.

It felt good to have this big weekend behind me, I just wish I could have stopped the time to reflect on the events a little more closely.

I'm just a wreck...strength to hold my head up high is gone. I feel so much guilt. Guilt for not letting everyone know when this was taking place, how could I keep everyone so informed over the last 2 months, yet fail to tell you when we were doing this?  Guilt for those of you that got the wrong impression of us not wanting anybody there to watch us.

Guilt for not video taping the event when I had the camera with me, guilt because I don't think we were in the exact same spot, guilt because I wasn't with my family the last few days because of Crop for Cancer, guilt because I feel I let the Crop for Cancer team down on Saturday as I slowly began to fall apart, guilt for letting Jake go...it's just never ending.

I hope I can get passed all the guilt that I feel...because I'm not liking it at all.

I do have some uplifting news.  I heard from LifeAlaska (Organ Donor) last week & they tracked down when & where Brianna's heart valves were implanted, since I had never received confirmation (oversight).  Ironically, they were implanted in a 19 day old baby girl from California in February 2003, the same month/year that Amanda was born.  Jacob's heart valves will be on hold for a little while longer because of the autopsy tests they are running.  I can only hope that one day in the future, I'll hear of another little one who is able to survive on account of my beautiful son.

I also hope that in time, we will have the answer we so long for.

Thanks again to each of you.  You've helped us in many ways, and we thank you.  I know that many couldn't have been there, even if we would have got the word out, so for all of you that weren't there, I hope you can get a small taste of what it was like by looking at the pictures that I've provided.  Click on any one of them to view it larger.

Before takeoff

During Flight

See the four Grizzly's?

Arriving back

 
 
 
 
 
 
 


Jacob Tyler Aldridge
Born July 28, 2005
Passed Away September 20, 2005
Placed on Mt Susitna October 9, 2005

View from Pt Woronzoff

Natalie Grant - Held
From the album Awaken

Two months is too little
They let him go
They had no sudden healing
To think that Providence
Would take a child from his mother
While she prays, is appalling

Who told us we'd be rescued
What has changed and
Why should we be saved from nightmares
We're asking why this happens to us
Who have died to live, it's unfair

Chorus:
This is what it means to be held
How it feels, when the sacred is torn from your life
And you survive
This is what it is to be loved and know
That the promise was when everything fell
We'd be held

This hand is bitterness
We want to taste it and
Let the hatred numb our sorrows
The wise hand opens slowly
To lilies of the valley and tomorrow

Chorus:

If hope is born of suffering
If this is only the beginning
Can we not wait, for one hour
Watching for our Savior

Chorus: (2X's)

Sunday, November 20, 2005 - Obituary printed in the Anchorage Daily News

Jacob Aldridge, infant

Anchorage resident Jacob Tyler Aldridge, 2 months old, died Sept. 20, 2005, at Providence Alaska Medical Center due to an unknown seizure disorder.

His family took a helicopter ride Oct. 9 to Mount Susitna, where they scattered his ashes.

Jacob was born July 28 in Anchorage.

His family said: "Jacob has touched the lives of so many. He was an inspiration to all of us and will be missed greatly. Although his time with us was short, his footprints have been left on our hearts forever.

"Jacob also gave the gift of life through organ donation to make life better for another child."

Survivors are his parents, Kevin and Jamie Aldridge; sister, Amanda Aldridge; grandparents, Larry and Judy Hancock, Darius and Marjorie Aldridge, and Paul and Vicki Matusewic; great-grandparents, Alexander Buyers of Edinburgh, Scotland, Lillian Bertuccelli of Castro Valley, Calif., Richard and Alice Hancock of Lincoln, Mo., Jean Hancock of Arvada, Colo., Jay Matusewic of Phoenix, and Roy Young of Van Buren, Ark.; aunts and uncles, Todd Silveira of Orlando, Fla., Wayne Silveira of Bend, Ore., Nicole Matusewic, James Matusewic, Darius and Regina Aldridge of Tacoma, Wash., David and Heather Aldridge, and Kerry Aldridge; and cousins, Jessika, Corey, Zachary, Kyle, Lyndsey, Shyanne and Sienna.

He was preceded in death by his sister, Brianna Aldridge; and great-grandparents, Roy Bertuccelli, Al Perry, Jessie Marie Young, Benjamin and Verlie Sue Aldridge, and Matilda Buyers.

Memorial donations may be made online at www.journalthejourney.com or sent to the Children's Miracle Network at Providence, 3200 Providence Drive, Anchorage 99508. Memorial tributes may be made at www.kreationstation.net/jacob.

Arrangements were with Kehl's Forest Lawn Mortuary.